Why Kids Should Practice Aikido?
Adults may practice Aikido for inner peace, relaxation, or self-defense.
But these are concepts that most children don't even think about.
So why is Aikido a good idea for kids? What can it contribute to their lives?
Aikido is a non-aggressive martial art. What does this mean? Basically,
that you can't really start a fight with Aikido - you can only finish one.
Aikido doesn't encourage kids to have Power Rangers Syndrome, in which they
go around punching and kicking their friends, siblings, dogs, and cats.
Aikido technique starts when someone else "breaks the rules", i.e. attacks.
Aikido teaches kids to be calm. Of course, kids shouldn't be calm
all the time. But Aikido gives them the choice. If they need to sit still
at school, or concentrate on homework,or focus during sports, Aikido shows
them exactly how to do that. The techniques and ki testing we do teach them
correct calmness. This is entirely different from keeping their emotions
bottled up. Aikido calmness feels good.
Aikido teaches kids practical self-defense.There is a story of how
an older boy was making trouble with girl on the bus. Twice the girl used
Aikido to take away his balance and safely pin him. It worked even though
she was smaller (and a girl!). And she avoided the trouble she would have
gotten herself into if she the only defense she knew was punching or kicking.
Aikido gives kids a positive world view. It teaches that in order
to create something worthwhile, you must work in harmony with your
environment. It teaches that if you make trouble, you will lose.
But if your mind is correct, calm, and positive, you can make something
good out of whatever the universe hands you.
Aikido teaches kids a lighter approach to life. A plodding, serious
approach to life doesn't feel good. And it usually doesn't yield the best
possible results. Our Aikido works best when you relax and feel light.
By learning this in practice, our children can't help but apply this to
their lives.
Aikido helps kids at school. By training in Aikido, kids develop
calm, clear minds. As a result, they absorb knowledge easier, and think
with greater clarity. Aikido is about developing the full human potential,
and school is one of the most important places for this potential to be
realized.
Aikido helps kids in sports. Sadaharu Oh, the Japanese homerun king,
started out as a mediocre player. He attributed much of his success to his
training in Aikido.The calmness Aikido gave him enabled him to learn to wait
for the ball. The balance Aikido gave him enabled him to develop
a one-legged stance that allowed him to swing with great power.
Anyone can be good at Aikido. Aikido does not require athletic
talent. In fact, athletic prowess can sometimes get in the way.
The key to making progress in Aikido is simply persevering and having
a positive attitude. What better lesson can we teach our kids?
Aikido works for little people. Since Aikido does not rely on size,
or speed, or weight, or reach, it is actually applicable by children
on adults. In fact, it can be quite surprising how much power our
children can muster when throwing adults!
Aikido makes your kids tired. So hopefully, they'll go to bed
a little earlier on Saturday nights.